Finally after 18years of living together, I overheard him complaining to mum about how rebellious I was when I talked back. Simple things like picking up phone calls, closing windows and switching off the lights, he always directed his orders at me, even when he's like beside the telephone or just beside the switch. I know how nice he is when he fulfills his duties as a father, but most of the time he's just a lazy jerk. Fathers always think they're the biggest right? I dunno, mine does, all of the time. He would end off an argument with something totally off the topic and reprimand me of how bad I am in contributing to this family. He switches channels like he's the only one watching when everyone's pissed off about it and he takes away all the nice food that mum's cooked without leaving some for me and mum. For that, he gives excuses like because he's diabetic and cannot take much rice, so have to take in more dishes.
Whatever, all you do is just eat all the nicer dishes and leave none for me and mum, and prolly sis too. I experimented several times, eating plain rice with nothing else and I see you gobbling away with the fried chicken wings and steamed fish that mum's whipped up. Whenever I tried to do what you do you reprimand me for not being considerate.
F.
I respect you, most of the time.
You could have just listened, but you refused.
Fathers love their ego, don't they? I dunno, mine loves his to the core.